August 18, 2025 by Mike Manazir – (4-5 minutes)
It Wasn’t the End. It Was Just the Beginning.
Begin with a Clear Vision — Failure Fuels Success
Kingsville, Texas | 1982–1983
When the instructor walked up to me and said, “Manazir, the LSOs called from the ship. You’re a disqual,” I honestly thought he was messing with me.
I had just landed six times on the USS Lexington. I caught a wire on each pass. The LSOs told me on the radio I was qualified. How could this happen?
But it was real. My approaches were fast. Out of limits. And I was out.
“Why am I doing this?”
That disqualification hurt. But even in that low moment, I knew why I was there. From Day 1 at the Naval Academy, I had envisioned myself flying Tomcats. Every time I opened the Kingsville O Club door and saw those wings pinned to the wall, I pictured them gleaming on my chest.
That vision wasn’t assigned to me. It came from within. I wanted it more than anything—and because I chose it, I refused to quit.
“Can I do this?”
It would’ve been easy to crumble. But I trained harder. I studied every detail of my performance. I waited for another chance—and when it came, I was ready.
What I didn’t expect was the opportunity that opened up during that wait. I got to fly with Lt. Cmdr. John “Bug” Roach, a fighter pilot legend. He didn’t brief. He just said, “Nasty, let me tell you a story.” Then we flew.
He taught me to lead with calm under pressure. To trust my instincts. And to believe in my ability—even when others didn’t.
When I finally requalified, I crushed it. And I graduated #1 in my class.
“Who’s in this with me?”
Kelly cried with me when I failed. She stood beside me when I couldn’t see the way forward.
And Bug? He believed in me before I believed in myself again. His mentorship not only shaped my flying—it shaped my leadership. Because of him, I began to realize something powerful:
Sometimes the greatest growth comes not from the wins… but from the ones who walk with you through the losses.
Leadership Lesson: Begin with a Clear Vision — Let Failure Make You Better
Having a clear vision matters. But failure? It’s what sharpens the vision.
Stephen Covey said, “Begin with the end in mind.” I did. But the disqual taught me what no smooth path ever could. Failure didn’t weaken my vision. It refined it.
I was no longer chasing wings. I was chasing mastery.
Write down your goal. Picture it clearly. Then hold onto that vision—especially when life knocks you flat.
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Mike Manazir
Rear Admiral, U.S. Navy (Ret.)
Author of Learn How to Lead to Win
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