How do you lead by example?

February 26, 2024 by Mike Manazir – (4-5 minutes)

In the early light of dawn, Nelson Mandela stood amidst a diverse crowd, united by their shared defiance against apartheid’s oppressive laws. Their voices rose in a steady crescendo, echoing through the dusty streets of Sharpeville like a symphony of resistance. Mandela’s gaze swept over the faces before him, each one a testament to the courage and determination that pulsed through their veins.

Suddenly, the scene erupted into chaos. The crackle of gunfire shattered the air, sending shockwaves of panic through the crowd. Mandela’s heart pounded in his chest as he ducked behind makeshift barricades, the acrid scent of smoke mingling with the metallic tang of fear. Around him, bodies of unarmed men, women and children fell to the ground. Their cries of pain and anguish became a haunting backdrop to the violence unfolding before them.

Despite the brutality, he knew that the spirit of his people could never be broken. With every fiber of his being, he vowed to continue the fight for justice, to stand firm in the face of tyranny, and to lead his people towards a brighter future.

Nelson Mandela, often referred to as the father of modern South Africa, was a towering figure in the fight against apartheid and a global icon of peace and reconciliation. Born in 1918 in the rural village of Mvezo, Mandela rose to prominence as a lawyer and activist dedicated to dismantling the oppressive apartheid regime.

His remarkable journey from prisoner to president exemplifies the triumph of hope over despair, forgiveness over bitterness and unity over division. Mandela’s legacy is one of inspiration and transformation, demonstrating the power of leadership grounded in principles of justice, equality and human dignity.

How did he do it? He modeled the behavior that he valued. He led by example with the following attributes:

Courage and Conviction: Mandela’s leadership embodied courage and conviction. His unremitting commitment was evident throughout his life, even during his time in prison. His example inspired countless others to join the fight for freedom.

Commitment to Nonviolence: Mandela’s personal commitment to nonviolence served as a guiding principle for the movement and helped shape its approach to achieving liberation.

Forgiveness and Reconciliation: Despite enduring 27 years of incarceration, Mandela extended a hand of forgiveness to his former oppressors. His knew that reconciliation would help pave the way for a peaceful transition to democracy in South Africa by uniting all parties.

Humility and Servant Leadership: Mandela was known for his humility, empathy and willingness to listen to the concerns of ordinary people. His humble demeanor and servant leadership style endeared him to the people of South Africa. It also earned him respect and admiration around the world.

Inclusivity and Equality: Mandela’s commitment to inclusivity and equality was reflected in his government’s policies and initiatives aimed at redressing past injustices and promoting social justice and economic empowerment for all citizens.

Vision and Strategic Leadership: Mandela demonstrated visionary leadership and strategic thinking in guiding South Africa through the transition from apartheid to democracy. His ability to unite disparate factions were crucial in preventing a descent into civil war.

Mandela’s leadership was characterized by personal integrity, moral courage and an unwavering commitment to the principles of equality and human dignity. His example continues to serve as a guiding light to leaders, demonstrating the transformative potential of leadership by example grounded in peace, reconciliation and social justice.

You must “walk the walk”. Key elements of leading by example include:

Personal Integrity combined with Ethical Behavior: Leaders who demonstrate integrity earn the trust and respect of their team members and foster a culture of transparency and accountability.

Work Ethic: Leaders who lead by example are willing to roll up their sleeves and put in the necessary effort to achieve success, inspiring others to do the same.

Accountability: Leaders who lead by example take responsibility for both successes and failures, demonstrating ownership and a willingness to learn and grow from mistakes.

Respect and Empathy: Leaders who lead by example treat others with respect, empathy and fairness. They listen actively and value diverse perspectives.

Continuous Improvement: Leaders who lead by example demonstrate a growth mindset, inspiring others to pursue excellence and continuous improvement.

Courage and Resilience: Leaders who lead by example exhibit courage, resilience and perseverance in the face of adversity. They remain calm under pressure, navigate uncertainty with confidence and inspire confidence in others.

Overall, leading by example is about more than words—it is about embodying the values, and behaviors that define effective leadership in your organization. By modeling the desired attitudes and actions, leaders will inspire their team members to achieve their full potential and thus contribute to the organization’s success.

“Leadership is caught more than it is taught”

-John Maxwell

Lead from your heart. Lead to Win.

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